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Please Read - Great advice to parents from Bob Baldwin HCYA Coach

I think this is a good reminder for us. I have noticed there have been a few parents slipping into a spirit of negativity. - Dan

Advice for Parents

Dec 11

Written by: Bob Baldwin
12/11/2008 10:33 PM

1. Please don't shout advice to your player during the game. Shout encouragement? You bet. A steady stream of technique suggestions, though, has no value. Your insightful tips may conflict with my instruction.

2. Please don't harass the refs. Parents that loudly harass the referee are embarrassing to the player and the team.

When a parent makes a spectacle of himself at a game, the player is embarrassed. If the ref is being reamed by a parent for a bad call (by definition, a bad call is any decision made against the parent's child), what does the player learn? He learns that the mistake wasn't his fault. It was the result of poor officiating. This is a bad habit to get into.

Don't encourage your child to place the blame for their failures upon others. One of the benefits of playing sports is learning to accept responsibility instead of making excuses.

Sometimes a call is hard to take for whatever reason. Such times are tests of emotional control. If a player can learn to bite his lip and move on, a parent can learn to sit quietly for a moment and let the emotion pass. Learning to cope with disappointment is a valuable life skill.

3. Don't blame the coach for your child's problems or lack of playing time. Your child's struggles to succeed are your child's problems. Let him work them out without your interference. A player has every right to ask a coach what needs to be done to earn more playing time, for example. But a parent stepping in to demand playing time is another thing altogether.

4. Please don't talk bad about the coach in front of your child. The worst thing a parent can do is take pot shots at the coach, criticizing decisions, and complaining about his leadership. Support the coach and stand behind his decisions.

5. Please don't razz the other team's players. The other team's players should be considered off limits. Yelling at or deriding someone else's child is a shameful practice for an adult at a sporting event. Parents who intend to disrupt, distract or upset players exhibit the worst of poor sportsmanship.

As a parent, be involved in a positive way. Attend your child's games as often as you can. Cheer for all the kids on the team. Help with fund raising. Assist with logistics. If you're not sure how to help, ask the coach.

There is probably a hundred ways to be a good team member and a good parent at the same time. When the larger definition of team is working well, the experience can be wonderful for everyone involved. People who see our program in action will want to be a part of it. Parents looking ahead to when their child will be old enough to participate will want to fit in and help. This kind of teamwork perpetuates itself. Once it gets momentum, it can be quite a force. It just takes parents who care.

December BVCHEA Basketball Committee Meeting Dec 21 Beginning at Noon

The Basketball Committee Meeting for December will be held on Monday December 21 from 12 noon to 1:30pm at J Cody's in Bryan. Our meeting are open to parents and players. The committee is made up of elected positions, coaches, and team moms. We will eat lunch at the meeting (Dutch treat). The following are some of the items that we will be discussing.

Committee Reports
Scheduling
Minutes
Athletic Director
Treasurer
C What You Got Tournament Close-out
Team Updates form coaches/team moms
New Business
Registration Packets
Payment Schedule
Committee, Coaches, and Team Mom Discounts
Pro-rated fees
Admission fees at games
Victoria Tournament
State Tournament
National Tournament

Family who are behind on regular season fees

Timing of next season fees charge

Team mom responsibilities

If you have other items please let me know

Dan

You can find this and other information about our basketball program at bvcheabb.blogspot.com